Meagan Norris
Coaching
After Divorce
Build a life so good it doesn't make sense.
After divorce there’s an expectation that the freedom and peace you want will just appear.
But it's more like the 4th trimester after birth.
Life is all new. Every day requires figuring things out and processing hard emotions.
You're waiting for it to get easier but it's not.
There Is a Simple Explanation
You have divorce brain.
After divorce you have to transition your thinking from group project mentality to working independently again, maybe for the first time in decades.
Post divorce your mind and body don't realize it's over.
Action and progress are slow as you:
- re-live the past
- try to control your co-parent and force your kids to be ok
- react instead of take initiative in life
Your brain is waiting for the next crisis. It's a miserable way to live.
This is normal...and optional.
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I know because I just lived it...
Once I realized what was happening, I figured out how to show up for what I want my post divorce life to look like.
In the first year post divorce I created a six figure business to support myself, sold my house and moved towns, transitioned three kids into a new school, and navigated a peaceful coparenting relationship.
It's so good it doesn't make sense.
I'm in charge of my life, not reacting to what it offers me. Now I've developed the mindset and tools you need to create a post divorce life so good it doesn't make sense.
"Meagan, thank you for showing up first. You helped me change my life in the best way possible. So good it doesn't even make sense." M.C.
"I don't know how anybody does this without you." M.D.
I can help you become the CEO of your life After Divorce.
What is After Divorce?
It is a luxury small group coaching experience designed for post divorce women.
You will receive master level coaching anchored in your vision for your life.
This is not a hands off container like therapy can some times feel. You won't just gain self-awareness with no action or tangible results.
You will be mentored, advised, seen, and heard as you learn how to make strategic decisions and take action as the CEO of your post divorce life.
You're embarking on the biggest solo project of your life, but you don't have to do it alone. You will connect with other women with shared experiences.
You can join the group to create specific results in your or to just feel better. Some common goals include learning to:
- feel empowered when communicating with your coparent
- make hard decisions for reasons you love
- improve your time management and/or self care
- replace anger or resentment with peace
- increase your income
- relocate
- feel in control of your anxiety and fear
Divorce isn't a prison sentence, it's an opportunity.
"Thank you for this session and helping me see a better alternative view. I can do this! I am going to build a fulfilling and rich life with my baby."
Q.T.
"Being in a community with empowered amazing women is so amazing. It feels really reassuring and supportive." N.R.
How does it work?
I. Orientation Call
When you enroll we'll do an orientation call together with other new members of the group.
I'll teach you the primary tool you need to seamlessly step into the group calls, give you a frame work to paint the vision of your future, and answer all of your questions.
II. Online Coaching & Group Support
We use the Slack App as a group platform for support, connection, coaching, and celebrations.
You can ask for coaching any time night or day via Slack and I will respond within 24 hours (weekends vary depending on my schedule).
This is real time support as you navigate the challenges and transformation of divorce in a confidential space maintained by clear group guidelines.
If you want, you'll also have a place to celebrate your wins, connect with other group members, and build meaningful relationships with women who share your life experience.
III. Weekly Group Break Out Calls
Every week there is a one hour Zoom call with live coaching/teaching. These calls are optional - you can come and go as you need/want.
You can listen/watch, bring a specific problem to get coached on, strategize, ask questions, ect.
If no one has anything they want coaching on during that call, I'll teach on a topic I feel is relevant to the group or that has been requested.
Each call is recorded and emailed to the group so you can rewatch it if you miss a call or want to revisit a coaching topic.
Ready to Work Together?
Group applications are accepted on a rolling basis.
Because the group dynamic is a priority, you must apply and schedule a free consultation.
All coaching and support is provided by me personally.
Investment Options
Month to month subscription for $750/month. Cancel any time. In order to provide impact and results, you must commit to as least one month (4 group calls).
Six month pay in full for $4500. Includes six 1:1 VIP bonus calls with me, one per month for 55 minutes.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Who is this group for?
This group is for women who have a final divorce decree. If it hasn't been officially entered by the court and/or you're in a state mandated waiting period, you are eligible as long as you have reached a settlement agreement with your ex.
*If you're still negotiating a settlement and want to work together, contact me at meagan@meagannorris.com
Who is this group NOT for?
This is not a therapeutic container. If you are struggling to function in your day-to-day life or you're in an active domestic abuse situation this group is not designed to accommodate your needs. Please seek help from a qualified professional.
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233
What is this group for?
It's for getting out of survival mode and shedding the group project mentality of divorce. Divorce has a very specific rhythm: decide, action, wait, feedback, decide, action, wait, feedback. All while managing high stress levels.
Post divorce this patterns slows you down and makes it feel like life is harder than it has to be. This group will get you back into the driver's seat and accelerate the creation of the post divorce life you want.
It can be so good it doesn't make sense. You just need the strategy, tools, mindset, and support to create it.
What about privacy and confidentiality?
The group is governed by strict guidelines around privacy and confidentiality. Violation of these guidelines is grounds for immediate and permanent removal from the group.
You don't have to share more in the group than you're comfortable doing, and you can communicate with me via private message.
If you have unique concerns about privacy, we can discuss them on the consultation call and decide whether the group is an appropriate container for you.
What are your qualifications?
I'm an attorney (J.D., Pepperdine University, 2006) and certified life coach through The Life Coach School (certified and started business, 2019). I created this group based on my own lived experience of divorce and post divorce life, my skills and knowledge as a life coach, and my understanding of the legal process divorce requires you to go through.
I do not offer legal advice nor am I a licensed mental health professional. My coaching is grounded in mindset shifts, future goals, empowerment, and personal development.
How long do you recommend being in the group?
You will feel the impact immediately. Every week we practice thinking like a CEO.
However, it takes time to develop the habits required to make that a default way of being. Most of my clients commit to working with me for at least 6 months.
I recognize the importance of flexibility and security post divorce and want you to feel comfortable using this group for a length of time that works for you.
Can I get coaching on anything?
Yes. You can get coached on anything you're currently struggling with.
In order to keep the group a safe place for everyone and maintain integrity in my coaching practice, you can't get coached on past trauma. As soon as I sense a conversation heading in that direction, I will gently guide us back to the present.
When are the group calls?
Thursdays at 10am PST/11am MST/12pm CST/1pm EST. Subject to change as the needs of the group evolve.
If you can't make this time and want to apply, go ahead and apply. We can discuss it on our consultation call.
Can I get a refund if I cancel?
If you pay in full for 6 months of coaching and cancel before the end the 6 months, I will refund all the months remaining as of the date of cancellation. If you are mid-month when you cancel, that month will not be refunded. You will continue to have access to Slack and group calls until the end of the month you cancel in.
If you are on a month to month subscription and cancel mid-month, that month will not be refunded. If you forget to cancel the auto-renew on your subscription, I will refund the charge as long as that month hasn't started.
*I don't get many requests issue refunds. If you have extenuating circumstances, please reach out to me and I will work with you.
How do the charges show up on my bank statement?
It will clear as a charge from Stripe through Meagan Norris Coaching. If you have business goals and want to know if this is a qualified business expense, please consult your accountant. This is absolutely going to help you to deprogram your divorce brain, start thinking like a CEO, and create results.
